How does one succeed in life?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

What does it mean when you dream that your mother died?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Am I the bitch for never wanting to talk to my sister again because of something she said while talking back to me?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

How can fashion design be used to make a political statement in popular culture, and society?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

What’s on Pornhub?

What I need from you?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

That's it for today.

Why do British people always write "xxx" after their names?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Do not set goals—set systems.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Ask yourself:

Why do narcissists avoid talking about the real issues?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Hangs out with loser friends.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

What is your opinion on The Beatles' impact on modern popular music? Are there any other bands with similar impacts on their genre(s)? Why them and not others?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Was there a British ‘genocide’ of Aboriginal Australians?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Why am I so afraid that gun owners have set traps to kill me outside my house or my car?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Is Melania still angry that she failed as a model? Why is she so cold and hostile? Why did she blame everyone for her actions in her trite book?

Does not procrastinate.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Why is the First Amendment referred to as a right to free speech instead of an immunity from punishment for one's words, regardless of their truthfulness?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Making more friends is a goal.

Why do I sweat (mostly on face) when I eat usually spicy food?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.